When it comes to dating (or even seducing) a woman, confidence is vital. Women often equate “self confidence” with the ability to be successful. While many men believe that women look for successful men because they’re likely to make more money, that’s simply not true.
While it’s a given, women actually look for successful men because they’re more likely to be satisfied. So you may be wondering what a man being satisfied has to do with anything. Let me explain. You see, women know that men who are satisfied with themselves are less likely to go out looking for someone to satisfy them and are more stable.
And in a relationship that means a man will be less likely to cheat, or change jobs frequently or get himself into any number of other compromising situations. Remember that most women are looking for a man who will be their partner as well as their lover.
Not only do they want a partner when it comes to things like companionship, decision-making and finances, but in the bedroom, as well. In order to effectively seduce a woman you must make her feel as though you’re both equals.
When it comes to confidence, it seems there are two kinds of people – those who have it and others who simply don’t. Although on the surface this may be true, everyone has the potential to be “self confident”, or motivated if you would like to call it.
Take heart in knowing that you’re a good person, smart, funny, good at your job, loving, considerate or whatever else you find to be positive character traits that you have. Be comforted to know that NOT all women are looking for a CEO or brain surgeon. They just want a man who’s confident with who he is, what he knows and what he has to offer to a relationship with them!
After knowing that having self confidence can attract women, you need to take actions to build that confidence. You can never fake confidence if you do not have it. Confidence is from within. She can feel it, if you have confidence, and she will know if you do not have confidence.
Confidence is an emotion. Emotion is triggered by your thoughts and body posture (physiology). If you want to have self confidence, you can build it even if you do not have it.
Confidence is a positive emotion that can drive you to success. If you want to have positive emotion, you can generate by thinking positive thoughts. What you can do is purposely thinking of positive thoughts until it becomes second nature to you. Once you have the habit of thinking positive thoughts, you will generate positive emotions automatically.
Keep thinking of having the success you always want, even if you have not achieved it. When you keep thinking of the success you want, you will generate positive feelings. Never think of how to achieve the success, and just think of having the success.
Other than generating positive emotions, act like you are very confident. What will your physiology be when you are full of confidence? Think of it, and act like one. When you begin acting like you are full of confidence, you will attract confidence eventually.
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